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Loss of a very good friend

I have been having a really hard time with neck problems for the past year. I am working on the problems with my doctor. My question is that one of my best friends and I used to talk on a daily basis. If I didn’t call him he would call me to see of everything was alright. All of a sudden over the past few weeks he doesn’t call me anymore, and if I call him I get the distinct impression that he doesn’t really feel the same way about me anymore, and in his opinion I am just giving in to the pain. I am really hurt by his attitute. The pain that I feel is absolutely horrible, and infact it is so bad that the doctor has has to put me on narcotics. do you think that I should just forget about his friendship. I am the type of person that is there for the good times and the bad, that is why I am so hurt by the way that he is acting. It’s not like I have done anything to bring this pain on. I have suffered with this pain for the last 19 years, it is just that it has progressively gotten worse. What is your opinion of this situation. By the way, we have been friends for about 20 years and have never had a problems in the past.

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Answer #1

WOW… thats really a long time, I dont know exactly what to say but I dont think it is right for him to act that way, it is unsual by the sounds of it. Maybe he is under some pressure of some sort, men dont really know how to handle some things, if you have been friends for so long then surly there must be some logical answer. I wish I could be of more help to you. Hope it works out, loosing a friend is the worst.

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