Lose the baby or lose him

You obviously come from a bad place. Your already pregnant, so not much I can say about that. Leave your trailer trash boyfriend, and Instead, seek psychiatric help so you understand why you rationalize your relationships the way that you do. Clearly, your parents messed you up, and their parents F-ed them up. BREAK THE CYCLE!

The worst thing you can do is bring a child into this already over populated world. Having a baby will not:

1. replace the love your parents never gave you
2. make your boyfriend magically fall back in love with you.

Don’t be an idiot. Go see a counselor and figure out why your head is so messed up. Its not your fault, its your parents. But its your responsibilty to correct your thinking before you screw up some innocent child’s mind.

Love Shep

LOOSE HIM!!! when you have that child you will love it more than anything I asked my sister one day since she just had a kid if she would choose him over her fionce and she said she would keep the baby and never have a second thought about it!!

Lose him! He is obviously not worth it if he is making you choose between him and the child HE HELPED TO CREATE!! He sounds like a loser to me, and one day you will see that. He left you after FOUR years because you got pregnant, what does that say for a long run relationship? What about a marriage? It says when the going gets tough HE WILL LEAVE. Do what you know in your heart is best.

Oh… this is a horribly hard situation, but I would beg you not to abort the child. If you can’t care for the little person that you are carrying, then find someone who can. I think abortion is so cruel. I know you don’t want to lose your boyfriend, but if he says he will leave you for that, then he is SO not worth your time or your affection! He sounds to me like a very selfish person who won’t be true to you at all. This situation is partially his fault, remember. Please don’t abort the baby… remember that what you are carrying is a little person… just like you used to be. That is a life, which is sacred and beautiful!

LLLOOOSSEEE HIM!!! if you are w/ a guy that shallow you DONT need him in the 1st place if god gave you this angel dont push it away..I have been trying to get pregnant for almost2 years and I have had 1 mis. at 4 months …if god wqants you to have this baby have it w/ him there or NOT

If you choose to kill the little one yes I said kill because I don’t want to use a big word that makes it sound less horrible. I don’t think It should be because of wanting to get back with him that shouldn’t be the reason because there aint much saying you two will work anyways.

The choice is yours… YOU decide what’s best for YOU… not HIM…

Whether you decide to keep the baby or not, you should dump your boyfriend regardless, because he’s a prick.

My ex said that I abort the baby and maybe we will get back together or I could have the baby and lose him forever>>One of your statements about your ex was dead on. “hes a selfish bastard”. DONT fall for his lies! He is ONLY trapping you into getting rid of the baby so he doesnt have to deal with it. (child support) Dont let him make a fool out of you. Your not a teenager anymore. Dont let him make you make such a rediculous decision. Your baby or him? Hes already dumped you, doesnt that prove how much he wants to be in your life? Dont kill an innocent fetus for the sake of a selish bastard!