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long time affair

Thank you. We do understand what we are doing is wrong and we are looking to change that. We want to be together, we are trying to figure out the best way to do this with the least amount of hurt to everyone. We don’t want our spouces to know we are leaving them for each other. We know they will figure it out down the road but the initial hurt will be hard enough without the thought of there is someone else involved.

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i understand but the fact is that there is not going to be an easy way out of this. What you need to do is sit your husband down and tell him the truth, and that you want to leave the relationship. Gently let him know there is nothing he can do to change his mind, but he will prob figure this was coming and state that you dont want your children to see their parents in a loveless relationship. Maybe take some time away from your lover until he tells ihs wife and you tell your husband and you let it sink in a little becos it may be to much, you know you want to be in the end it just may take a little time. Just be gentle for the sake of the kids.

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