Do you believe that the kind of love portrayed in movies like "The Notebook" and "Twilight" exists?

Well ya its fiction but the love part is not. The love bond is strong. Just exclude the thought that he is a vampire. His love for her is unbreakable

smiling on this one!

I take that as a yes ;) hehe.

Yes and No. Love is strange. In those movies it usally only shows dramatic desions or there special moments. Real love has fights, heartbreak, and pain. But the real love story isn’t how you met or what made you become a couple, it’s the love that over comes those bad things. Thats what a real love story is to me.

Good answer :)

Good answer :)

I believe that it’s possible, just very, very rare. My grandparents started dating in high school, and they’re still together and very much in love. My grandma got into a bad car accident a long time ago, and has been paralyzed from her waist-up ever since. The way my grandpa takes care of her every single day is admirable. I’ve heard stories and seen home videos from when they were young, and it’s truly an incredible thing to witness. It’s true that Hollywood dramatizes everything to make it more captivating to the viewer, and real life is much more complex; however, I still think those perfect love stories can definitely exist.

I believe in loves like the Notebook. Maybe not dying at the same time together, but I do believe that some people give their hearts away to someone and never totally get it back…

Aw thats so sweet

me too. hopefully dont have to take it back.

I do.

I hope not. Not for me anyways. Those people just go f*cking insane and can’t live without one another. I don’t want to be like that. Vulnerability isn’t my style.

Personally, I’ve experienced that kind of dangerous love and it was exhilarating! Bet your lucky charms that the love you speak of does indeed exist.

why else would ppl write novels and direct movies about it?

I don’t think love has any boundaries or limitations whatsoever. It is the most powerful, wonderful, and yet dangerous thing there is. It can do all kinds of things to people both good and bad. The head says: “I’m in control here, I got this”. Then the heart says: “Let me out of this box for one second, and I’ll really screw you up” Then you’ll know who’s boss.

Thats so right.

Yes and no. Certainly falling in love is profound and life changing. I think that the idealized view of love we see in movies is counterproductive. Our expectations are raised so high by our society that no real life romance can measure up so most people feel cheated.

Twilight was horrible. Bella was a skank that couldn’t decide between 2 guys and then when she chose Edward, didn’t want to separate herself Jacob. She wanted her cake and eat it too. The notebook? I think was a little far fetched cause no girl would leave their fiancee who was rich (and she was in love with him) to chase a childhood romance.

So these type loves in my eyes are more hollywood than actual truth. Except for the Bella thing….. yeah I was a Jacob in one instance of my life. However, I do believe in love.

Yes

haha you do have a point

i believe so sometimes (making fun of twilight) but girls usually have more emotion than just ._.

In twilight Bella wasn’t a skank. She was with Edward until he left her. She was never with Jakob nor did she want to be romantically. But she didn’t sleep with either so she wasn’t a skank. Twilight is a far fetched romance but has all the energy of real romance. Confusion, heartbreak, insane in-laws… As for the notebook. She was a royal skank. Sleeping with another man while engaged to someone else. But she did marry for love instead of being shallow and money hungry like her mother. Love is a strange thing. It is dynamic and explosive and sutle and sweet. It is everything and anything. My parents were together until my mother past away, my grandparents on both side were togther until one past away. And none of them ever found another partner because the first one was enough to last them their whole life. There are real and raw stories of love and they are always amazing to read and hear about.

lol true

Yes, it does.

Bella kissed Jacob just to let him know she loved him too so he won’t go and die (the 3rd book). She loved Jacob too but wouldn’t leave him alone. I felt bad for Jacob cause he was dragged around Bella’s chain and she knew it and she knew she would never be with him. She should have left him alone. He’d be hurt but gotten over it. I’m probably just bitter cause my relationship with my past ex was compared to twilight. I was Jacob with no one to imprint (or just haven’t found one). So Bella wasn’t a skank…… however I’d say foolish. The Allie did love the rich guy too, or so she admitted. But ran off to chase a childhood flame. I’m happy to hear about your parents/ sad to hear about your mom (can’t be easy). I wish I had that. Parents divorced when I was 8, fought, both remarried, fought with them. Sucks playing marriage counselor to stepparents. Love is real, I believe it is though…. just not usually how hollywood portrays it.

Bella kissed Jacob just to let him know she loved him too so he won’t go and die (the 3rd book). She loved Jacob too but wouldn’t leave him alone. I felt bad for Jacob cause he was dragged around Bella’s chain and she knew it and she knew she would never be with him. She should have left him alone. He’d be hurt but gotten over it. I’m probably just bitter cause my relationship with my past ex was compared to twilight. I was Jacob with no one to imprint (or just haven’t found one). So Bella wasn’t a skank…… however I’d say foolish. The Allie did love the rich guy too, or so she admitted. But ran off to chase a childhood flame. I’m happy to hear about your parents/ sad to hear about your mom (can’t be easy). I wish I had that. Parents divorced when I was 8, fought, both remarried, fought with them. Sucks playing marriage counselor to stepparents. Love is real, I believe it is though…. just not usually how hollywood portrays it.

I think so, the minute I saw my now bf of 3 years I knew we were meant to be. I had felt like we had known each other forever. So yeah, I believe that the kind of love you are talking about can exist.

You’re a doll.

hehe thanks

Yes, but the kind of chemicals that cause those sorts of emotions weaken as the relationship progresses. So, yes, but it doesn’t last.

my own love story is better than all these

im with chanelqlit it is possible but very rare.

you just have to meet that one special person then you will see if it does exists :) xx

i dont think so. in routine life you can see a lot of breakups and misunderstandings and such love is not possible in real life.

that kind of love exists. ask me and my girlfriend :)

awe :)