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Just broke up with my boyfriend

I just split up with him after just over a year of being together.. I broke up with him because he was too controlling and we were arguing too much.. Im now feeling really depressed and im constantly in tears, all my mates are too busy with exams.. So I dont know what to do.. :( any advice?

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Answer #1

Relationships are not perfect, we are all human we will all make mistakes. IT IS not possible to date through an entire year and not have any arguing at all or any tuffles its just not possible. Because being together that long is a lot of work, its like going and clocking in at your job you hate doing it but you need to do it if you want money.

Same thing with dating, you hate going through those tough times but if you really love eachother, then you will be able to forgive eachother for the little things like arguing, not seeing eye-to-eye on things. I think you broke up with him because your just sick of him period and you want to be with someone else. You cannot tell me that anyone here feels like that sometimes that when you are together with someone that long you will start having feelings of wanting to be with someone else.

Answer #2

shes right itll be ok not now with time you oviously like him …but he was no good ull find someone else dont go back to him be strong…ull pull through just fine.

Answer #3

Only time will heal the situation, unfortunately. You will obviously miss him, because you were together for a while. You’ll have feelings of regret and all that stuff, but just let it be. Those feelings don’t mean you should get back together, because soon you will probley feel as though breaking up wasn’t the right thing to do. But if you were being controlled, then thats good that you broke it off because you deserve your freedom.

Answer #4

I just did the exactly same thing with my boyfriend we were together for a year and 3 months. I did it because he was controlling always wanting to know where I was what I was doing. and we would always fight. and then we started talking and realized that it’s things we can fix so after the summer we are planning on getting back together. if it’s little things you can fix maybe you give it another chance but if not you might be better off by yourself

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