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Okay so I will try to make this as brief as humanely possible. I have been friends with this guy, Ben, for a couple years now through summer camp counseling. At first we were more acquaintances, but lately we have become good friends. Recently, we decided to hang out. For a while now we have been talking/flirting via IM, but I thought that hanging out would mean "as friends". Now I'm not so sure, we walked around town and we were quite flirtacious. We hugged and held hands frequently. It felt like we were a real couple and I really enjoyed being with him. It is pretty obvious that I like him and that he likes me, but we haven't comfirmed this. So should I ask him? Should I tell him? Any concrete plan would be appreciated!
You should ask and tell.
Its better to start communicating now.. If there ever was to be a relationship in the future-you will feel more at ease telling him things..because you started the relationship with communication..
It would be better to tell him how you feel and ask how he feels.. rather than sit around and guess or wonder all the time.. Most likely he wants to ask or tell you the same... but maybe is scared like you are... once you start being open with him- it will be easier for him to be open with you.
well, if he ever tries to kiss you, tell him you dont kiss guys unless their your boyfriend. this will probly make him ask you to be him girlfriend lol. maybe just waiting a while to see if the relationship devolps is a good idea
well really you should just ask him if he wants to be your boyfriend, and then you will know from him the truth
