It is so hard to get a date

Right, I’m 17 years old, 6’ 3” so I’m pretty tall. I’m told I’m a nice guy and I’m not going to say anything contrary to that. I like helping people out, I love music, movies, etc, but what really bugs me is that I can never meet a nice girl who I like and is also single. It just seems that there is a lack of girls even remotely interested in me. I’m not saying I’m the best looking guy around, but I mean not every single girl around can be so uninterested in me that I’m still single. I have friends that are girls, I am happy to be their friend and they’re happy to be mine and sometimes it looks like they might be slightly interested but in the end it just seems like nothing happens. If you read my previous question then you might understand a bit more about this.

My question really is, what am I doing wrong? Are they scared of me? Because I can be a very gentle person and also a good listener. If a girl asked me out and I wasn’t interested I would be nice enough to let them down gently instead of a down right no.

Any insight would be appreciated. Also if you require any more information about this then please send me a message

Answer #1

Akumo is right. you need to take charge. who cares if a few women say no thats the worst that can happen right. and remember for every 1 male there are 2 female. just take your time your still young. Youll meet that lucky girl sooner or later ^ ^ hope I helped and need further advice fun mail me ~kaitlyn~

Answer #2

You have to show interest as well :) Cant wait for someone to say something to you, step up and say something to someone!

Answer #3

What amazes me is that there are so many guys like you saying this on the internet, etc., but girls like me never meet any of you! Haha I feel the exact same way, only from the female perspective of course. Anyway, this is an older post, so I hope you ended up finding the right girl! (btw, tall is a great quality :)

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