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About a week before my 17 birthday I completely fell in love with this guy that I had just met. We were even engaged, but it only lasted for 3 months before he decided that he was scared and he broke up with me using the excuse that there was someone else., but that was a lie. It’s been a whole year and we’re finally back together and engaged and completely in love. But in that year a lot of thing have changed. I’m a different person and he keeps comparing himself to every guy I’ve dated in the past year and refuses to do anything with me that they’ve done with me like for instance, he doesn’t like big romantic kisses…he says that they should be small and have meaning. What am I supposed to think about that?

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Answer #1

this guy isnt the one for you. you said it your self that you’ve changed. if he was in love with you && wanted to marry you he would have to let your past go because it is your past && there is nothing you can do to take it back. I think its kinda silly that he wont kiss you the way you want him to. I say you should end this realationship && find somebody super better… Because this could hurt you worse in the long run if you stay with him..

Hope I helped Baby_doll_7

Answer #2

Yeah id say maybe give this guy a miss if hes second judging everything you two do and comparing the relationship isnt going to end well…if youre a different person an he has changed maybe you two should take time apart…dont rush into anything if youre not sure of what you want to do!

Id say give him a miss unless hes willing to change and stop comparing your realtionship to ones you’ve had in the past. Best of luck but you deserve a better relationship.

Answer #3

Dear superwoman828, Well it’s obvious that this guy isn’t for you. You’ve already broken up, this leaves a huge scar on relationships and always comes back to haunt you. So you are right you are both different people and both of you have grown in different ways. It seems that he isn’t for you anymore and time to face that. Time to move on. Sue…good luck

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