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Is there a difference in orgasims?

Why is it that when having sex, I can get really wet but don’t really feel it happening and really don’t have that “blow out” feeling orgasim. Yet, when I masturbate, I can feel it coming and it makes my whole lower half tingle and “explode”. Am I actually orgasiming during sex or not?

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Answer #1

You have what I call fragmented pleasure shoots. You have extremely high points where you will just let all go but don’t actually do so. When you masturbate you can kind of tell when you are going to release. It’s the state of mind that makes a huge difference.

Answer #2

A woman can cum and get sexual release… she hits a peak, cums and feels relaxed… She will tense up during, maybe shake a little, then relax…

And An orgasm, happens when sexual stimulation continues past that point to where where her mind melts… simplistically speaking.

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