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Here's the deal. I'm a few years older than my girlfriend. I'm 22 and she's well...younger. I'm very old fashioned when it comes to relationships, it's how I was raised. I waited a long time to lose my virginity, I wanted there to be true love. The thing that sketches me out is the fact that she has fucked a few dudes before me, but I disregarded it because she told me that she didn't even feel any love with them. She tells me that I'm the best thing to ever happen to her and that she is truely in love with me. I believe her, but for some reason I feel that she isn't being faithful to me or that I can't trust her. Yet I love her so much. I'm really afraid that she's playin me. I kinda think she's been doin it since the start. One reason is because I found out a password of hers by mistake. It says playette. As you know a playette is a female player, and they're more proud of it than any guy is. Fact is guys don't usually know there being a player, there just super horny. The playettes make it an evil game and they love it, but they should be takin it easy on innocent guys such as myself. I'm only looking for someone to love and to be with. Maybe these days it doesn't exist. I may just be single forever if I find out any bad shit. That way I don't have to have my heart crushed. Please help me someone.
I've been in a relationship for 5 years mind you I'm only 21 so you do the math, anyhow feeling like your significant other is cheating I sometime your own insecurities being put into play. I would ask her flat out , BUT MAKE SURE YOU STUDY HER RESPONSE VERY CAREFULLY. Took at her body language,does she look nervous, is she looking at you in the eyes, and what actually comes out of her mouth. Because the words might me "of course not honey" but the face looks guilty.
i also think you should ask her and she should be opened with you and if she isn't than that's not a healthy relationship, you sound like a good guy and she shouldn't be treating you wrong so i think you shoulkd be sure before you go assuming, i also dont trust my boyfriend but im unhappy as well so i kind of understand and for snooping around i also found out he was still talkin to his ex when he said he wasnt. good Luck
i have been crushed so many times. but love is the best feeling in the world. u have to try 4 it. i cant tell u if she is playing or not. i would be worried also. u need to talk to her about it. dont sneek around. that is never good i dont think.it just is creeping and not as mature. but dont ask if u dont wanna know the truth. good luck.
simpley ask her! may b its like a joke to her may b she is JUS ASK HER what the fuck is goin on!
