Is my ex jealous that I'm talking to somebody else?

I’m 19 years old. I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. Not to long ago he broke up with me because I hacked into his myspace! My bad, I just had a feeling he was up to no good, and I was right. He was talking to another girl. I was pretty sad. The thing that I don’t get about him is that when he broke up with me, it seemed as if it didn’t really bother him at all if he lost me. He always told me he would never leave me, and that forever was forever with me and him. Another thing, I kept calling and calling him after he broke up with me, and all he kept telling me is that I need to find somebody else. About a month later, I started talking to this guy I had met before my boyfriend. At first I thought that I would just use him as a rebound, but I’m actually starting to like him now. It was already a period of time that I didn’t talk to my boyfriend, and then one night he called me, asking me if I was seeing anybody, I told him yes, I was. The part that confused me the most is that when I had told him the truth, he started to cry and tell me that he missed me and that he loved me so much, when I could’ve sworn that he told me I should find somebody else, I mean, he sounded at the time being that he didn’t want anything to do with me at all. But, unfortunately I got back with him, and that other guy, I’m still talking to, but what he doesn’t know is that I got back with my boyfriend. Did my boyfriend only get back with me because he found out I was talking to somebody else?? I dont get him..

Answer #1

It’s very possible that part of the reason he wanted to get back together was jealousy. Sometimes even when we do not want to be with someone, we get jealous when they find someone else.

We can’t say for sure though since we can’t read his mind. I think your best bet would be to just talk to him about it. Ask him if he is sure he wants to be with you.

Answer #2

I think your bf in some way might be jealous but clearly he was selfish. Since you mention that he did not felt lost after you broke up with him, I suspect that he might already have a relationship with that girl. The only reason I can think that he decided to get back together is because something between him and that girl did not work out. I suggest that you think carefully having a relationship with that guy. Anyway this is my opinion I might be wrong. But hopefully you make the right decision and hope that whatever choice you make you will find happiness. ^_^

Answer #3

How did you hack into your ex’s myspace?

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