Is it okay to flirt w/ another guy when I have a boyfriend?

sure just by reading my question your probably thinking ‘hell no you cant flirt wit any guy when you have a boyfriend!” but my situation is prety differnt…like I have this one long distance boyfriend named Josh,,he’s 2 years older than me but we click a lot and we care about each other a lot and everythings prety good wit us now..,,I c him 1x a week on fridays at the skatepark (we both sk8brd) and we usaly have a pretty gr8 time! we email and call each other too. seems perfect rite? well since I dont c him everyday at school, I miss him, and I just find myself flirting wit guys liek in a way physically and verbally..like I mean thers this one guy named andrew whos a total rock rebel (like me) and I no he like flirts wit girls he thinks r ‘hot or sluttiesh’ so I gues appreantly I fit into that category and him and I flirt tons at school and I feel horrible about it l8r cus josh trusts me and look at wt im doing to him behind his back you no wt I mean? and I even flirt wit other guys…I mean im not trying to sound concieted you no,,,but sumitmes the guys come to me and start flirting and I get tempted to flirt back (wich I usualy end up doing)…I’ve never ben soo unfaithful!! is this wrong? I miss him so I flirt wit other guys to fill that empty peice of my hearT?? shood I tel josh I’ve bin doing this recently?

thanks (:

Answer #1

if your flirting with him in emails and text your actually emotionally cheating.

imagine if your boyfriend found out he would be hurt and upset and you dont ever want to see someone (boyfriend) you care about cry in front of you, its not a nice feeling :(

trust me hun, im talking from experience, I pashed a guy who wasnt my boyfriend as I was off my face, and my ex boyfriend dumped me, even though I didnt even like the guy I kissed…we are getting back together soon after being separated for almost a month…SOOO…

so dont do it, stick with your boyfriend and the person your emailing and texting keep him at bay, reduce your flirting and keep all your emails and texts tame and be his friend but a platonic friend only

Answer #2

theres a diff betwen inocent flirtin an non inocent flirtin. and urs don’t sound innocent. stick to your b.f stop flirtin or you might just lose your b.f in the proces s

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