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Is my masturbation lifestyle normal?

Hi,

I’m 38 and to this day I had sex with just one woman for less than 2 minutes and that was the first and last time. It happened 2 years ago. Honestly, I don’t call it a sex between us, the way we see in movies, she just rode on me and within 2 minutes everything is done. I didn’t even realize that my orgasm was simply vanished in her vagina. I’m quite attractive and looks very young to my age. [sorry I’m not seeking anything] I masturbate a lot [3-4 times/week]. Is this normal? I feel like changing my habits and becoming myself more social but I can’t. If I need a girl should I change my lifestyle? or just buy sex? Please suggest me.

thank you, libra100

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Answer #1

I dont know if I should answer this question or not. masterbating increases the amount of sperm you might have at one point( depending on weather or not you can stop 3 or more days before you have sex). it also increases the amount of time you might be able to have sex(although this does not seem to be the case for you). although you might have a wonderful heart and a good mind, physical features also affect the relationship, although we don’t want it to. so work out and meet someone at the gym, or somewhere else, god knows it has helped me!

Answer #2

What you need to do - if you want - is to get involved in activities outside your home and work. Join a volunteer group, or a group that does something based around what you like to do. (If you want to meet women, stay away from all male types of activities like MMORPG groups or fishing groups. Also, no bar hopping.) Having that common interest will help you meet women naturally. And volunteer work for charitable things gives you a patina of ‘nice guy’ which women your age like.

Masturbating 3-4 times a week is very normal. Also normal is a 2 min. blast off your first time out. And 38 years with only one sex partner - a little light, but that was my record too (although I did marry her).

I would suggest not buying sex, as there are many unknowns out there, and that will not give you any meaningful companionship.

Take care, and remember to practice safe sex. Good Luck!!

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