Is it ok? can you help me?

Hi im new. This girl who lives near me asked me to go in her house and play a comp game with her (shes like 16 and im only 13) so I said “yeh ok” and we started playing this game but after about 15mins she said she was bored. she started messing around like tickling and stuff but then she kissed me on the lips. it did fell nice I will admit that but then she was puttin her hands up my skirt an evrythin trying to pull my undies off. I just got up and ran. now I cant stop thinkin about it what should I do? I mean she is a girl and its not like rape or anythin?

Answer #1

Thank you sooo much for your advise x Lisa x

Answer #2

Not rape I had like the same issue but I’m a guy and another guy did it 2 me like I went along with it but I stopped now

Answer #3

What did you end up doing?

Answer #4

that is a little weird, she was probably just playin and experimenting… just tell her not to do it again…unless you want her to…

Answer #5

what did you end up doing like what happened

Answer #6

maybe the girl is bi sexual and maybe she thought you were hot and maybe deep down inside you like her to but me I like boys not GIRLS

Answer #7

It wasn’t actually rape, and unless you said “no”, it wasn’t assault.

I’m sure if you asked her to stop, she would have, however, sexual assault is possible even from one girl to another.

Answer #8

it is wrong for anyone a boy or girl to do anything like that to anyone else if they dont want it. you ran out of there so im guessing you didnt want it. it can be called molestation so if you feel really uncomfortable about it tell somebody older who you trust. this can skrew you up in the head badly even if you are 13.

Answer #9

Well if it was the very first time you talk to that girl and suddenly so soon wanted to make out with you then is very creepy. But if it is somebody you see a lot and she comes to your house and you to her house then is pretty normal for this kind of things to happen if that girl is also into girls.

I think the computer game thing was an excuse. She actually wanted you and has been fantasizing about how to make out with you for awhile.

If it turned you on it doesn’t mean that now you are a lesbian or even bisexual. Sometimes thats how our body reacts and girls your age sometimes experiment or get confused about their sexuality or like both guys and girls for awhile.

When you ask if it is ok? Do you mean that it felt good?

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