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Is it normal to get scared of love?

ok well I love my boyfriend an awful lot, im just so scared that he wil hurt me mentally , I dont know why hes been nothing but really nice to me but im still scared, im going through deppression and all that so im guessing that might be why im feeling like this, I just want to know if there is some way I can get passed this as I really dont want to end it with him which im afraid I mite if I dont feel secure enough! any advice would be great! thanks! xxXxx

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Answer #1

well yes its normal to get scared of love because being kind of nice can be a bit scarry and boring if youre that type of girl like me. youre just trippin itll be okay just talk to him spend more tyme. if you can never forgive some one you lose em

Answer #2

yeah I totaly agree with rachal1007 she totally right love I think scares everybody because if you love some one you don’t want to screw up I loose them etc.

Answer #3

I think that most people would tell you no, and say that it comes “naturally” and that you “shouldn’t” question it. but, I’ll give you the hard truth. if you truely love the person, you’re always going to be scared of losing them and you’re always going to be scared of them hurting you, which seems like a pretty good reason not to say anything, right? well, personally I think it’s better to just put it all out there. I mean, if you think he loves you back, tell him. if you think there’s a chance that he doesn’t love you back, still tell him you love him. relationships are about learning how to express your feelings and about honesty. I hope that helps!!

Answer #4

thanks everyone thats helped a lot :) xxXxx

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