Is it him or is it really me?

To be honst sweety, its him. You arent wrong at all. It seems as if he may have some anger issues, as you said, may be bi-polar. But he seems a little controlling. If You’re startign to be afraid of him, think about it. Should you be afraid of the person you’re dating or in love with? Should You be treated that way? these are things you should ask yourself…and have you brought it up to him? If not, then I’m not too sure if you should, the situation seems kind of scary… My advice would be to let him know how you are feeling and put your foot down, or leave him completely, because it will only get worse. I’ve been through an abusive relationship, and itss really hard to leave the person, but you have to, the physical and verbal abusive isnt worth it babe. And it sounds like you may be going down that path. This will be hard, but you shouldnt be treated that way, there are too many guys out there who would/could treat you with respect & treat you better than whats going on… I Hope my advice helped <3 Fun Mail me is anything =] Best Of Luck!

It’s the guy. Sounds like an azz that wants to spend more time with his friends. Pushing and wrist clenching sounds like abuse to me; you don’t need a physical punch for it to be abuse. Plus sounds like theres emotion abuse as well, especially if he’s yelling at you for stupid reasons. Your boyfriend needs to grow up and realize that he’s in a relationship. Relationships need commitment and take a a lot of effort. Right now it just seems like he’s taking you for granted. Leave his azz and find a better man.