Is it him of me?

As I stated before in one of your other posts, I think the relationship is coming to an end. You are so very young, and this guy will most likely not be your last boyfriend. Very rarely do people marry their first love. For most people, they will be involved in several relationships before they find the one person that they will spend the rest of their lives with. No one wants to accept the fact that the relationship may end. It is a natural part of life and a necessary one.

Ok so you are 16 and he is 22… given that that is your correct birthday. The age gap can play a role in kids at these ages because it is two different maturity levels.

He’s more of an adult and wants to do more things like that, and you are still a kid (no offense).

I think maybe a break would be good. Maybe date some people closer to y’all’s age. I’m not saying the age gap is bad because my sister and her husband are 5 years apart… but they got married when she was 23 so she understood.

You are young and have plenty of time.

Also if he keeps breaking your heart over and over, what will be left of you if you stay? It’s kinda like a band-aid. You can rip it off quick and it hurt but be over quick, or take the prolonged less painful route to achieve the same thing.

If ya’ll truly love each other then this shouldn’t be a problem if y’all decide to hook back up.