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Is he cheating or not?

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Okay me and my boyfriend have been together almost 2 years and a few months after we got together he cheated on me and I forgave him. well like 2-3 months ago my friends ex girlfriend started texting my boyfriend for about 3 weeks ago and I told her to stop. Well since she was sleeping with another guy like right after her and my friend broke up my boyfriend told her that my friend had another girlfriend and was sleeping with her. well when I called her and told her to stop texting my boyfriend we got into a conversation about my boyfriend. She started to tell me that he told her that he cheats on me all the time and he lies to me constantly and he kinda takes advantage of me cause I give him what ever he wants. So I started to believe her and I confronted my boyfriend about it and he didnt really say anything. He did say that she was probably saying it cause he told her that her ex boyfriend was with another chick. And I could either believe him or I could believe her. So to stop the arguement I said I believed him but I still dont know. So my question is Do you think she is telling the truth or do you think he is?

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Answer #1

I love him very much and want to be able to trust him and I am strong but really dont know what to do and I have no place to stay and no job and have nothing

Answer #2

Tough one, I’ve been through this. I suggest you stop giving him whatever he wants for a bit, and see if he stays with you. If he doesn’t, well he’s quite obviously not worth it, and if he does, I think you can be closer to fully trusting him. Hope I helped, good luck.

Answer #3

STOP GiViNG HiM EVERYTHiNG HE WANTS. DONT MAKE YOURSELF BELiEVE iT’S A PRiVLEGE FOR YOU TO HAVE HiM. THERE ARE OTHER GUYS OUT THERE WHO WOULD DO BETTER BY YOU. TAKE CARE OF YOU FiRST.

Answer #4

I agree, stop giving him everything he wants, back off a little bit, see if he cares.

if you love somone you have to learn to let him go. if he comes back he is and was urs, if he doesnt he was NEVER urs. you have to look and think outside the box, some people can genuinely make mistake of cheating and never do it again, but if you made it too easy to forgive him then the chances are he is cheating on you and didnt learn his lesson.

Answer #5

shes rite find a better guy your way to good to go through that crap b strong girl : )

Answer #6

thanks. But I want to know the truth

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