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Is he cheating on me again?

Ok so my boyfriend lefted me and told me it was because he was moving back to arizona ok ya it hurt big deal you know later to find out when I was talking to him he desided not to move he tells me that he cheated on me and thats why he lefted me because he felt bad ok so this girl did not know we were together so iam not mad at her ok then he tells me that he should have never done it and all this b.s ok so we are currently back together but today when I was looking at his myspace I saw a blog that said my shitty life so I read it and it was saying that he missed this girl he had no bike because he rides bmx anyways I thought it was about me so I called him and asked him who it was about he told me it was along time ago not to worry about it and this was right before we got back together so I desided to go look on the girls myspace that he cheated on me with to see if she had any blogs or whatever so I look at her comments and there is one from him telling her to call him and at the end it says I love ya ok I dont know what to think because this was sent when we were together this time and I dont know if I should ask him about it or not becasue I was being kinda nosey what do I do?

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Answer #1

Ok so I talked to him and he said “That he is happy with me and they are just friends”so I dont know what to think honestly he told me about it the first time so dont you think he would tell me about this time to

Answer #2

I agree. He’s cheating and you dont need that. Don’t hang on to him…You’ll end up on Cops Being held back at the door yelling “DON’T TAKE HIM, I LOVE HIM”

Answer #3

Ask him about it. You already know, because you’ve seen it, so what good would it be to ask him…So he can tell you more lies you’ll believe? You really do need to stop being so naive. Hes lied to you before, and he continues to do so, and you had the stupidity to take him back> Well, by taking him back, your only letting him know he can disrespect you, by lying & cheating on you. He needs to have consquences for his actions (like dumping him) or he is going to continue doing it. The idea of dating is to weed out the liars & cheaters, and find/stick with the guy who treats you like a queen, and treats you with the utmost respect.

Answer #4

Honey, first of all you need to use some punctuation!

Secondly, I don’t think you would have asked the forum if you didn’t already know the answer.

Yeah, he’s cheating. PLEASE don’t be one of those girls who hangs on to some loser because “you love him”. FInd you someone new and better! :)

Oh, and once a guy cheats on you one time, you have EVERY right to be “nosey”. As far as I’m concerned, there’s no such thing as privacy once you have betrayed someone’s trust. And if he put it on Myspace, maybe he wanted you to find it? If not, he sure is stupid!

Answer #5

I totally agree with porkchop, once a cheater always a cheater in a lot of cases, you need to be nosey sometimes and keep tabs to make sure hes not doing it again, sounds to me like he IS cheating or doing something behind your back. Im sure you could do better than him. As far as confronting him about it maybe you should maybe not, maybe you should just break it off and if he asks you why then tell him what you found. Theres a lot of guys out there who WON’T give you the run around…find one of them and good luck

Answer #6

Your not being nosey, he got caught, thats his problem x

Answer #7

Yes he is cheating let him go or like Ursher said “ I THINK IS TIME TO LET IT BURN”!!!

Girl let it burn and blow away the ashes…

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