Funadvice Logo
Explore Join
More Love & Relationships Questions

Are my best friend and boyfriend betraying me?

My b/f and my best friend have been acting really weird around me lately.Their always talking secretive.People say that they were at the movies together and were watching (you know what I mean) . I asked both of them about it and they said how can I believe that and they got vex.the next day I saw them huggin in the halls like they were together. I told my bestfrend about what I saw and she said that I was just being jealous and overprotective and need to chill.she also said that she and my b/f were not betraying me. what you think? is both of them betraying me?

Become an Expert →
Answer #1

Now, I’m not saying your best friend & bf are messing around behind your back, but at the same time, I wouldn’t play it off thinking nothing is wrong. Keep on your toes. A couple months ago my best friend was having a tough time in a relationship, so I had her stay a few nights to get her mind off things. Biggest mistake of my life. My best friend ended up flirting with my girl in front of my face, and they became best friends over night. The next few days they started texting and talking to each other on the phone like crazy..so I called them out on it. & of course they played it off saying I was paranoid, but then I few days later my girl called off our relationship & said she was falling for my best friend. My best friend also couldn’t deny she had feeling for my former girl. Basically, I went through hell & back for a few months before my best friend realized how much she fucked up..

Moral of the story..people are selfish assholes..a good portion of the time..stand up for yourself, so you’re not the victim. Don’t let yourself get walked all over.

Answer #2

It seems weird….really weird i know i wouldnt put up with it …sounds to melike they both wanna be your friends but they wanna be together also i say give it time tell them both you want it to stop or your going to have to leave cause if they are too into each other sorry to say girl theres not really a place for you think about it Fun Mail me to talk to me more Richelle

Answer #3

keep a close eye on everything and if lots of ppl tell u teh same story its most likely true :( check out everyones story and if it adds up then u know what to do.

Answer #4

Its a lil weird I think a girl always has those gut feelings for a reason. I would just keep my eyes on the situation and see if you can catch them in the act

Answer #5

Don’t believe the movie story. Only go on what you know and not what other people tell you. But hugging? Yea, I would be a little upset, but don’t make a huge deal out of this. It’s a little weird, but its not something to lose a best friend over. Don’t assume anything big unless you Know it is true. But if I were you, I would definitely keep an eye out for them.

Answer #6

Sounds like there is definetly something going on, talking secrets, hugging..why do they find the need to hug? nah keep an eye on it..they are trying to hide it but sooner or later its bound to slip up and come out.

Answer #7

Yes they are. Sorry.

Answer #8

give it time. think it may be a surprise for u or somethign but if it keeps happening confront them and ask for the truth

More Like This
Advisor

Love & Relationships

Dating, Marriage, Breakups

Ask an advisor one-on-one!
Advisor

Best Mail Order Brides

Dating Services, Matchmaking Services, Relationship Advice

Advisor

Best Bride

Mail Order Bride Services, Marriage Agencies, Dating Services

Advisor

World Best Astro

Astrology services, Domain sales, Professional services

Advisor

The Lifestylist Sydney

Life Coaching, Personal Development, Wellness

Advisor

Astro Guru Bhargava

Astrology services, Relationship advice, Love counseling