Internet love?

I’ve just recently met this girl online over a social site- she was introduced to me by a friend. last nigh we got to talking, and she seams realy nice, shes also very beautiful. I think im falling for her- only time will tell, but she has been the only thing on my mind since last night, and when she started talking to me again ten minutes ago, I was thrilled to my very core.

now I know the risks of online dateing (or whatever you want to call it) however this person has known my friend for quite a while, and im sure she isnt some fat bald 40 year old pedofile.

what concerns me the most is, she lives in kentuky, u.s.a. and I live in ontario, canada. the problem is, when I do fall in love with her, I fear I will be driven mad with greif, with not being able to see her, as im only in grade 11, and cant do anything (like cross the border and drive / fly to kentucky) for another year and a half- provided I have a car and/or money.

what am I to do? whats your opinion on the situation?

*and for the record, I am no pedofile- im 16 years old, and the girl in question, is in grade 9, so im assuming she’s 14.)

Answer #1

wow, way late arnt we? this is long since over, I was a fool.

Answer #2

Psht. I love her more :D my lovely girl. I miss her ): and way to mention me WHOO! ahahha

Answer #3

I’m in the same situation. I’ve met this boy over an internet game and we’ve know each other for four years. Just over a month ago we’ve started to talk on the phone. There’s also another problem, he lives across the country from me! :( but I would suggest that you take it very slowly and don’t rush anything. Get to know each other better since you’re not even sure about her age.

Answer #4

I would take it as it comes, if it’s meant to be sometime in the future then it’s meant to be. Just take it slowly. She’s been the only thing on your mind since last night? I can see why you think she is the one then ;) As I say don’t get bogged down with ‘love’, you’ve never even met the girl, just take it as it comes. Also I would stop with the paedophile hysteria, not that you shouldn’t be careful, but far more likely is that the other people is socially inept and lonely.

Answer #5

to be honest: I’m not sure it’ll work out in any sort of dating situation, with you guys being so young, and so far apart. but that surely doesn’t mean you should stop talking to her. go on being friends, if you’re having that much joy out of talking to her, why should you stop?

Answer #6

I know what you mean me and my boyfriend live hundreds of miles away from each other and never met. I love him so! much! I know he is not some old perverted guy. We’re 4 years apart and he might be moving to where I live after he graduates this year. To some people this might sound ridiculous but you can’t judge the situation till you’ve been in the same situation or somewhat the same. If you really like the girl and your truly meant to be together and you can handle the relationship and the struggles you will surely go through then it’s stupid not to give it a try. If y0u enjoy talking to her that much and you don’t think it will work out you can alwalys stay friends and maybe something will come up later in life. Hope I helped Best Of Luck!

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