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I am 15 and my really close “friend” is 16. I really love him and he really loves me. We both want to be dating but he is my best friends ex and I don’t want her to get upset also my mom is not 2 fond of the idea. We have been getting closer and closer for bout the last 4 weeks… So I went over his house 4 like 7 hrs and had a blast… He is the kind of guy that is very fun loving but he is a lot more advanced then me. He used to do drugs and had sex and drink all the time. He stopped all of that partly because it was the right thing 2 do and partly 4 me. I am the type of girl who isn’t prude but want do just anything iam into theater and would never do drugs drink or that kinda thing. But when I went over his house he fingered me twice it was amazing(he def had a lot of practice) since it was my first time I didn’t really know what to do… So I went on this website looking 4 more answers thats why I signed up…

What do I do while he fingers me? Are we going 2 fast? I just kinda need advce… O and last?… Everyone talks about getting 2 the “climax” (im pretty sure thats when I would have an orgasm) but I cnt tell if I had one or not??

So… please help like please please soon because I m confused

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Answer #1

thank you so much you you actually helped =) haha

Answer #2

First off when he fingers you, lay back and enjoy it. You can touch him or just relax, but above all else if you are enjoying yourself let him know.

If you have to ask if you’re going too fast then you probably are, before you get any more involved I think you owe it to your best friend to talk to her about it. Even if she’s not happy about it you still need to tell her…how do you think she’ll feel if she hears it from someone else?

If you’ve had an orgasm you would know…but…the easiest way I can describe it is if you imagine that your muscles are all connected by a rope and someone pulls on that rope making your muscles get tighter and close together…then all of a sudden they let go of the rope and your muscles spring apart. After you feel completely relaxed.

Answer #3

well yeah an orgasm is a definate thing, it feels good for guys leading up to it but when it hits. bam you know it bc most of the time if you let it your body will start moving similar to how it would in sex. this doesnt always happen but it is nice, as a guy speaking, to know if the girl has had an orgasm. if you do have one let him know but not telling him. kinda body lingo it to him so it isnt akward

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