Would this guy at my work cheat on his wife?

I am sorry to say NO, but I do. Guarding the loyalty of a marriage is not the neighbors’ or e-mailers’ task. This is the COMMON task of the couple. We do not know anything about that marriage. The man can be unsatisfied, or even abused at home. Or cheated. The wife can be happy if the husband “goes somewhere else”. There are many examples for such marriages. Of course, the wife can also be unhappy to know about her husband’s behavior. But we do not know anything only that the man is “staring at Alocru”. We even do not know that what the husband thinks. Maybe nothing, maybe that “I want this girl..” But nobody knows anything. So I think angelfire’s reaction is honest, but very formal/conformist. But the life is not always formal or comformist.

Honestly, I would be a little weary of even pursuing him. The fact that you all flirt back and forth says enough about not only what he thinks of his marriage, but the respect he has for marriage in general. I’m not saying that he would cheat on his wife, but if he would, then definitely stay away from him because if he would cheat on his WIFE he would do it to you too.

His marriage is not your problem, and a cheat does not destroy a home, if so, there was something wrong in it even before the cheating. So, if he wants you, and you accept that this just a cheating realtionship that is usually a short adventure, you may let him to seduce you. Saving that marriage is not your task, but his.

Dear alocru, Rule #1 never have a relationship with a co-worker. Even if he wasn’t married this is not the place and they are not the people to get involved with. NOw that you know he is married…time to turn the other way. His behaviours while married has put him in the (to avoid) category to begin with. If you decided to carry on with this knowing he is married would you be a home wrecker…YES! you would also be to blame. His behaviours are despicable as would yours be if you continue. Sue…good luck

I’ll see you in hell bubux007 and when we’re there I’ll remind you of what you posted on this website.

Sure its not the outsiders job to save the marriage.. but it is the outsiders job to respect that marriage and not DESTROY it. Outsiders have no business with a married person. The outsider should have the dignity to step away from a married person and not even involve theirself. Lets be real.

OMG bubux007> you have issues! That is NOT good advice! That is MORALLY wrong!

Yea, I agree with you Sue90 about him. I don’t think i’ll be talking to him much. I was pretty upset.