im so confused pleze help!!!

you guys need to talk it out, get all your problems out on the table, then start working through them without yelling or fighting. Once you can talk about things without fighting you are on the right path.

Taking breaks is the new train of thought, and lead to divorce, or cheating. YOU CAN FIX THIS. He needs a few hours alone time a week to play games, music, whatever he enjoys, just like a few times a week he needs to watch the baby so you can toodle doing something you enjoy.

Once a week, get someone to watch the kid so you and him can do something, anything- go for a drive, but you have to talk and connect.

Remember he is a guy, and guys need to fix problems and rescue you. Don’t nag or yell, talk to him like an equal. Start jumping his bones like he is Vin Diesel, as often as you think he wants it for a while- You will FREAK at the difference this makes in him. When he comes home from work, smile at him, don’t cry at him or dump on him, do that later in an enviornment suitable. Be someone YOU would like to come home to.

You guys have to start connecting daily, even for just a bit.

Don’t give him problems he can’t fix, it makes men despair. Make sure you have a g/f you can dump on, guys can handle some of it, but not all of it, everyday.

Remember it is about the baby now, and you owe it to her/him to make it work.

Hope this helps.