im screwed

ok I have a boyfriend for about a year now, and I love him so much… heres the dilema my guyfriend told me that hes in love with me, I dont know what to think let alone do can anyone help me out>?

Answer #1

well depends how you feel for your guy friend. chances are, if he’s been your ‘guy friend’, it wont work. and BTW your advice did help, im just still stuck. im pretty good at giving advice, but when it comes to myself having problems, I just break. but thanks :]

Answer #2

Well if you love your boyfriend, then this shouldn’t effect you. You just need to let him down gently, You can’t possibly love your boyfriend if you have feelings for someone else. So, if you truly love your boyfriend and have no feelings for this boy, then let him down gently, Tell him you are in a relationship and that you are incredibly happy and in love. If not, you need to think about if you have feelings for this guy. And need to think about if its really worth ending a one year long relationship for the tiniest feelings for another boy.

Answer #3

I would be flattered if someone was in love with me. If he’s in love with you, he’s in love with you. If he tells you his feelings and you don’t feel the same just let him know you arent ready to take that big of a step.

Answer #4

This happened to me and I made it worse by becoming close friends with the guy that liked me.. You have to tell this friend straight. Telling him you like him back just to keep him happy will make things worse. Tell him you are already in a relationship and are very happy.

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