im embarrassed of myself...

im 16, 4”10, have a size A cup size, and I feel I have 0 personality. I just get frustrated by the way I look and feel and I cant take it no more, I met my bfs parents for the first time the other day and all they said when I left was is ‘she looks like shes 12’ its gotten to the extent that I get so annoyed with myself that I self harm, its starting to affect our relationship as even he makes little jokes and remarks about my height and stuff that I just laugh off but it really gets to me, I know hes joking but it just makes me feel like crap. I dont really know what im asking here, just if anyone has any advice it would be appreciated, thanks.

Answer #1

You claim you have zero personality, yet you’ve only mentioned ‘physical’ traits that you don’t like about yourself. Your personality and your appearace do NOT correlate.

You have low self esteem… period. And its all too common with teenage girls.

Answer #2

dont worry about it. you need not to care about what other people think if they dont like you cause the way you look well screw them but if its cool with them hell ya its nothing to worry about. some guys like petit girls so just let life happen and dont let other people get to you

Answer #3

Well 1st off tell your boyfriend that the height jokes he makes hurt you because if you don’t he will just throw them at you 4ever. Then it might b smart 2 find a short boyfriend next time because he won’t make fun of you and his parent won’t say anything bad because they’ll probally b short if they have a short son. And don’t worry about your boob size because most guys done really care as much as you think and 2 guys that have small hands itll b fine lol (I’ve got small hands I know). Plus its stupid 4 a guy 2 date a girl because of her boobs. For your personality when your around people that your good friends with that’s probally when it comes out and you don’t even know it. Keep your head up. If you need more advice just funmail me

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