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omg im afraid to finger myself. I only stuck my fingers up there a little bit then I gave up. I've heard about sticking other things up there, but im scared. lsnt it sopose to feel good lol like it feels like it doesnt go in that easily. it doesnt make sense I can use a tampon but I cant finger myself. I NEED SOME FIRST TIME FINGERING ADVICE! lol
There's no need to be afraid, it's not like there is a monster up there that's going to bite your fingers off, lol. Not but really, you don't HAVE to finger yourself if you don't want to. Some people just aren't comfortable enough with it and maybe waiting till you are more comfortable with yourself. It's a good way to get to know yourself down there though when you are ready. Masturbation sometimes doesn't feel great for some people that's why you need to explore yourself so you can learn to know what feels good and what doesn't. Generally just sticking your fingers in there wont do the trick, you need to find the right spot. You could try for the G-Spot which is when you stick your fingers in with your palms facing towards you and make a "come here" motion with your fingers by pulling them forward. Also stick things in there...be careful and make sure they are super clean because you don't want an infection. The fact that you are really tensed up about this is another reason why it might not be feeling great, relax. :)
dont be afraid to finger yourself, its easy. you could try using object but make sure they are super clean. you could also finger yourself and if you would like the extra pleasure you could use your other hand to rub your clit. its easy :) nothing to be worried about! :) x
Watch porn to get yourself wet. Rub your pussy while watching it. Then start with one finger and move in and out real fast. I just tried this myself and I'm 13. Let me know how it goes!
Take it slow.Dont just shove it up.Be gentle. Like caress your vagina then slowly go in. And dont do it unless your ready.
