if you dont know you are having an affair with some one is it an

I didnt know that this guy was married and I had an affair with him but at the time I didnt know his wife found out right before I did and told every one who was important to me (as in family)(like one person) so was it technically an affair?

Answer #1

Yes it was; but it was not your fault. It was an affair because of him, but to you it was just a relationship. It would only have been bad on your part if you suspected or knew about his wife and still continued to sleep with him. You are the innocent victim in all this, as is his wife. He is the cheat, so rise above his level. Apologise to his wife if you can and let your family know the truth about the situation. It will take a while, but hopefully they will understand. Just move on and show you are the bigger and better person and I am sure they will respect you again soon.

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