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If im pregnant my boyfriend will break up w/ me

but we had sex like 2 days ago. and I don’t know if im pregnant or not. he used a condom. he didnt cum inisde me and I don’t know if he pre cummed. but im not on birth controll.

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Answer #1

I suggest getting on birth control and taking some responsibility for yourself. It’s great he wore a condom and didn’t cum inside you, but have enough respect for yourself to take matters into your own hands and protect yourself. Condoms aren’t just for men. It’s a females responsibility to make sure she’s protected against pregnancy and HIV and STD’s. Men don’t trust women to be on birth control just because they say so, and they should wear condoms. Women should insist on condom usage anyway to protect themselves.

You won’t know if you’re pregnant for another 2 weeks so i wouldn’t worry about it just yet, but in theory i’d say you’re probably not pregnant.

Btw to say you don’t know if he precummed isn’t an option, there is pre-cum, it’s the lubrication that comes from the penis at various times during arousal. There is always precum

Answer #2

He used a condom!!! End of discussion. Stop being so anxious!

Answer #3

Good answer!

I’d say also that if you get some birth control (family planning clincs will give you them for free once every few months, also you can get free condoms and advice), it means even if the worst happens and your condom splits you can rest that bit easier that you are still safe from pregnancy as if youve taken the tablets correctly there will be nothing for him to fertilise.

Good luck!

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