if he asks me out what should I say???

kinda long sorry! But this guys I met on halloween, he is a really nice guy and he likes me a lot, and I like him too, but the thing is, is that its hard to believe a lot of what he says because my ex that I dated for a year broke my heart and my dad this past year fucked me over and we no longer talk because I cant trust him…I feel like my past feelings are still with me and its hard to let go of them…so what do I do if he asks me out do I go out with him or what do I do??? and my mom isnt racist or anything but I told her that he was black and she said oh boy…what does that mean??

Answer #1

I have gone through the whole black boyfriend thing also… my mom said the same exact thing. but when I really started dating him she really didnt mindd. I asked her why she said it and she said its because people may judge youu, but these days nobody even caress. and she thinks that black guys are moree experiencedd and thingss but I dont see why it matterss.

Answer #2

I understand you have been hurt in the past and you feel like you have to keep your guard up, but you also shouldn’t let yourself miss out on something that could be great. You should get to know the guy better but its okay to be cautious. Oh and I’ve also dated a black guy before which I hid from my parents during the 3 months we were dating and they didn’t find out until after we broke up. The reason my parents had a problem with it was also because of what other people might think, but it’s the 21st century so who cares.

Answer #3

oh boy haha she probly thought you couldnt handle a black guyz dick or somthin lol jokin aside I suggest you maybe giv diz guy a shot if he works hard to wanna be wit you and stuff then maybe it worth it bein ina relationship can be risky also but you always gotta try to see watz up and if he asks you out just tell him your not ready yet and if it ok just hang out for a while till you feel comfortbale enough to accept it

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