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What to say about why I won't talk to her?

Ok I fell in love with my best friend and told her she says shes not ready and she dosent want to mess up our friendship but I told her I cant move on and dont want anybodyelse. I also told her we cant be friends if I have feelings for her. she says she wants me in her life but dosent think shes ready for US. Well I have just completely stopped talking to her and wont look at her when she talks to me (even though I work with her.) Recently she tried to im me and I ignored it. She also texted me to hang out the other day and I didnt answer it. My question is if I keep doing this and wait for her to run out of patience and come talk to me, when she does what should I tell, her when she asked why cant you talk to me any more

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Answer #1

ok, I am trying to put myself in her shoes to give you the most honest answer I can think of. this is a tough one. I think there are a few different possibilities why she could be not ready. either she really enjoys the freindship and really doesn’t want to mess it up like she says, or she is interested in someone else right now, or she loves your friendship but not interested in you like that. she doesn’t want to hurt your feelings and risk your friendship being awkward if you know she doen’st like you like that. thats the hard part about trying to be friends with the opposite sex. typically girls best friends are not men and mens best friends are not women for reasons. )considering your straight:) ) but I do know a few people where it has worked out. it takes certain personalities. hope I helped!

Answer #2

opps, forgot to tell you I think you should remain patient with her. keep the lines of communication open. give her some time because hopefully, lets give her the benefit of the doubt and think positively here, hopefully she is just confused and needs some time. keep hanging out with her, time will tell you your answere and if she is interested in being more than friends, you will know by hanging out more. she will be more receptive to your affection if so. watch for it. if you don’t communicate, you can’t expect anything at all.

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