I want to get pregnant so I can hold on to my boyfriend.

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4yrs this is our fifth year we only started having sex this month,he promises that he will marry me one day but one day sounds like ages. Both of us are not working and we live in seperate homes. He comes from a wealthy family but his parent’s have not permited him to date. He’s 20 and I’m 22. Every two days he always comes rubs my belly and asks me how our baby is doing,as if he realy wants to have a child. I want to get pregnant with his baby by not taking the pill every time we have sex.I know that we’ll both dissapoint our parents but atlist we’ll be together

Answer #1

god no dont do it im married with 2 kids and how they havent split us up is a miracle we were together 14 years before I got pregnant babies turn into annoying little brats no matter how well you bring em up if you do it it will end your relationship faster than it started hope this helps

Answer #2

don’t get preggo 2 keep him in your life 1st guys find that crazy and 2 he mite still b in your life but it want bn how you want it 2 b

Answer #3

Get a ring and a date First ! - ‘to hold on to’ is absolutely the wrong reason - hope you do the right thing so you won’t have regrets.

Answer #4

It sounds like he loves you allready. Why would you want to get pregnant to keep him, if you have him allready? I don’t get it. oh and messing up your future for a man is not worth it anyway.

Answer #5

well talk to him about moving in together first than see how that works out for you then maybe he might pop the guestion talk about kids and stuff like that but dont push it on him

Answer #6

yeah I agree with icarolanne

Answer #7

uhm I want you to talk to any number of people and see how well having a baby has held their relationship together… Surveys done show that most peoples relationship satisfaction goes down after having a baby, not up. And wanting a baby to keep a man around shows you’re not mature enough for one. This is a living breathing person, not a doll or a toy. You cant be selfish like that. If he says he’ll marry you, then he’ll marry you and you just have to wait. I dont think he’ll thank you for alienating his parents, or risk him being kicked out of his house. How exactly is he going to support you and the baby? Dont be selfish, if you truly loved him, you wouldnt even consider betraying him in this way.

Answer #8

don’t do it find another man that you love and he really loves you back and then have kids you’ll be much happier that way don’t be a gold digger.

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