I want to cum!

I’ve been seeing my boyfriend for 6 weeks now, and we have been having sex for about 4… we have both lost our virginity to eachother. I have always been very sexual and masturbated frequently and had regular orgasms. My boyfriend is not overly confident and often makes comments about how he has a small penis and he’s “crap in the sack”. I do enjoy sex with him but am often not turned on and tend to dry up at times. I want to experience an orgasm with him but he does not touch me or go down on me, he feels shy about it but I dont know how to tell him I want him to make me come. I am worried that he will take it as an insult or that he hasn’t been a good lover. I am also unsure of whether he realizes that he has never made me come or not. help me please!!!

Answer #1

That is some great advice im going to try it not now but right now.

Answer #2

Well you know your own body and he doesn’t have a clue. So give him a tour and a “how to” session. I do not think he will take it as an insult. He’s new to it all, once you two get used to eachother he will open up. Try a game!

Get a dice(or two). Write down on a piece of paper two rows of 1 through 6. One side will be places on the body and the other things to do.

Body Part Action

  1. Inner Thigh 1. Suck
  2. Neck 2. Kiss
  3. Chest 3. Lick
  4. Genitals 4. Massage
  5. Butt 5. Caress
  6. Stomach 6. Wild

*Wild is ANYTHING the receiver chooses.

Now you roll the dice once for the body part. Whatever number you roll, match it up to the number for the body part. Then roll it again and do the same for the action.

So say you roll a 2 and a 4. Then you would massage his neck. There are alot of combinations and the anticipation is great! Now you can use this game to adapt to your own preferences and style. I hope this helps!

Answer #3

flippin great advice man!! gonna try that wen i get sum1 to have sex with first!!

Answer #4

or…. you can just go to Spencer’s and pay for an overpriced pair of dice that does the same thing. :) (their version is kinda lame though actually)

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