I want some respect!!!

My best friends push me around and hit me all the time if I don’t do what they say. They tell me off for going out with my other friends, I’m sometimes forced to go out secretly. They’ve never liked any boyfriend I’ve had, and I always end up breaking up with him because they tell me to choose between them and my current boyfriend, and I really don’t want to lose my best friends. I’ve recently broke up with my boyfriend because they hated him, and I’ve been really depressed about it because I actually love him. It was my first proper relationship and they made me f*ck it up. I love him so much that we’re getting back together at new year, and I don’t really know how to tell them this. I also want them to start respecting me, and stop treating me like I’m just a piece of dirt. Please help me x

Answer #1

If you really want respect then step up to them and tell them to shove it up their A because you don’t need Ahole’s as friends. Really? Friends don’t do these types of things to you. You are allowing yourself to be the victim. Tell them they either start respecting you or they are not deserving of your friendship.

Answer #2

They are not your best friends; best friends don’t treat you that way. What kind of friendship is that? Question yourself. Stay away from them, and quit that relation right away. Talk to your boy friend about them. He will help you with more idea…You’d better find new friends and give up those kinds of friends.

Answer #3

Hmm.

Honestly, do they sound like friends to you if they disrespect you all the time?

And hitting you? If it is severe then it would be counted as assault (I think), and therefore would be a crime that you can report.

You need to get some new friends, hun.

What I would do is to get a new group of friends, possibly ones that treat each other kindly and have respect for others and that share your views and interests. Not ones that treat others like absolute sh*t.

I hope this helps and good luck with your boyfriend : )

Answer #4

Get new friends. They don’t deserve you. You shouldn’t put up with their nonsense. And I agree with the above.

Answer #5

They seem more like bullies. Best friends NEVER want what’s bad for their friends. And apparently, with everything you’re told us, they are NOT your friends. You should just hang out with your other friends and get back with your boyfriend. If you have people to back you up, those “best friends” of yours cant do anything against you. And if they try, then..this might sound coward-like, but try to get an adult involved. Not necessarily a parent, maybe an older cousin or an older sibling. Because honestly, if you want all that stuff to stop and be happy with your life, you need to do whatever it takes. and just taking all that stuff because you feel its stupid to tell an adult is being more of a coward than anything else. I’m not saying you are one. I’m just saying that you should stand up for yourself. Do whatever it takes. Life is too short to be wasted with friends like the ones you’ve mentioned above.

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