I want my family to move out?

I know it probably doesn’t help…but there are millions of us out here who have been in exactly the same position.

It does no good to constantly ask them if they’ve saved any money, found another job, have any plans, ask when they are moving…blah blah blah…all you get is frustration and resentment.

Sometimes we have to make “decisions” in order for others to “help themselves”. We do them an injustice by allowing freeloading to go on without end…This is what I did…FINALLY. I told them they had until such and such a date to get their poop in a group, and move on. I gave them 90 days from the date I said my piece (that seemed fair, and would give them enough time). Since they had no real expenses of their own, that meant they’d have plenty of money to get started on an apartment…AND, I made it perfectly clear, that I wasn’t BS’ing…if they didn’t put that money away, they’d be on the street. When it was getting close to the deadline, I handed them a sheet with all the places they could get free food, from the Mission to the Food Bank…and addresses of shelters (just wanted to remind them I was serious as a heart attack)…

Sometimes ya just gotta be FIRM.

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