I want my ex best friends back.

okay this all started in december. wherever we went, it would be me and them. them and me. we did everything together. then, around march I started being in a bad mood almost all the time (I now know that I have depression) so they started getting more clingy together, but that didn’t matter much at the time. they still hung out with me. then in may, we went to a concertt and they wwere leaving me out a lot. but I was having a really bad day and being sad the entire time. then I just all of a sudden started crying and I think I overreacted. well, anyways, I lost my two best friends that day. I have no idea what to do. I want to be friends with them again so bad.

Answer #1

You went through a lot and had no one to stand by you. You’re two best friends should of been there for you through everything. They should of helped you with your depression. It’s natural that they got closer together but if they were true friends they would of also stayed close to you! I know that you’re feeling lonely but darling, do you really want a friend that leaves you when you need them the most? Who cares if you overreacted and cried? They still should of stuck by your side.

I don’t know what you should do about getting them back as friends because I can’t figure out what you did wrong. The only thing I can tell you is to talk to them, explain about your depression, and try to start over.

Good luck and best wishes

Answer #2

I can say that I was in a situation like that too.

I have two best friends that I used to hang out with all the time. We did everything together. Then when we went to different high schools they were closer then I was to both of them. I would get mad during hangouts because I was always left out and the two of them started hanging out together without me, a few times.

I mean, I miss them a lot and I cried too. I mean basically its hard to get a relationship back to how it was. I still talk to them today, we tried working things out but there was still some weird feelings between us all when we hung out.

Basically like I said, its hard to get it back, but there is still hope. We hang out occasionally and we all have a good time. Its not as much as it used to be but hey, it was something.

We all kind of broke apart but I am not as upset as I used to be. I made new friends, and we drifted away but we all still have a connection to each other.

Its hard when it happens, it was really difficult for me. You guys should talk it over and tell them how you feel. Maybe you guys can work things out.

Hopefully that wasn’t too depressing but trust me, you aren’t alone on this one. Just talk to them and try to resolve it, something good can happen. =]

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