Hi Im 15 and i want girl friend alot. But i just dont know how to get one im goodlooking and stuff but im just kinda shy. i dont really know what to do i just want some one to talk to and hug and stuff but nothing like sex or anything to extreme. Can you give me some tips on how to get a girlfriend please.
I think the biggest piece of advice here is just be social, and don't make dating your goal. If you go out with friends to meet people and have a good time, as opposed to going out and looking for a date, you will be much more confident in appearance, personality, you will have more fun, and make a better impression. Im grade 11, age 16, and I just met this great girl a few weeks ago. When I asked my friends if they wanted to hang out sunday they said sure, we ended up hanging with some of their friends and since i had no intentions of looking for a girlfriend, I just did what I usually do - be crazy, had fun, made people laugh. Im not tall, or anything like that, talented, or experienced, Im just myself, and I show her I care. DOnt listen to posts that tell you rules on what to say - say what you feel, there will be no other chance. Dont be someone else because chances are, everyone else is being someone else too, and it makes everything complicated and obvious. Dont make it your goal, and be social. Everything always works out in the end. If you dont make it your goal, you will fall into a more real relationship that you both enjoy being in, as opposed to jumping for the first girl so you can say you have a girlfriend. I know its hard not to worry, but don't just picture yourself in 30 years. Right now man, focus on hanging out with friends and having an awesome time, someone will spot you.
Be confident. The biggest thing for me when I'm hanging out with a guy is if he's confident. Don't ask is everything ok? or stammer alot when your talking to her. I know it's hard not to be, but just keep practicing and ask the girl you like out to do something fun that's not too involved. Try going up to her and ask her if she's seen the latest movie, if she says no, say, "I was thinking about going to see it this Friday/Saturday, do you want to come with me?"
It's a easy way to get her alone and see if she's into you. Most girls, even if they don't know if they want to be your girlfriend, will say yes to a proposition like that.
well one thing i can tell you is to be confident but not TO confident.
i know that kinda sounds confusing but its easy. a real turnoff for me is when a guy is really cocky and thinks he can get any girl. but another turnoff for me is when you try to talk to a guy and they dont look you in the eye and you just kinda of stutter. so find a midle ground and find a girl that you are interested in and try it out.
You have lots of time. I know alot of guys that never had a gf until their senior year of high school. Your situation isnt all that unusual. You cant be something your not. They say theres someone out there for each and everyone of us. Your turn will come. Just be patient!
I feel U on this ? But U still have the best social meeting place out there available 2 U: School. Just find a girl Ur attracted 2 on some level & find whatever U have in common just 2 start conversation Trust me once Ur out of school finding girls gets much much harder.
ok dude you should find a girl you think you like then get to know her and be her friend then if you get it off ask her out to do something but dont make it something to weird.
i have the same problem, except i can't get a boyfriend. lol, wanna go out?
also watch "hitch" the movie - actually good advice to males in that movie.
im excatly like you except im 13 and i go to a boys only school
