I still love him

I have to empathize with girls like you. You really need to read what you just wrote. He is having a hard time forgiving himself for hurting me the way he did> When a guy says, “I didn’t want to upset/hurt/disappoint you” what he is really saying is “I didn’t want to deal with your justifiable anger towards me when you learned exactly how I upset/hurt/disappointed you”, can you see the difference? The difference is in the root of the lie and in this case that root is definitely not that he didn’t want to see you upset. If it were really that simple, if it were truly just a matter of not wanting to hurt you, he wouldn’t have done whatever it is he did in the first place. No, he knows he messed up and doesn’t want to face the music and that is why he lied. It’s as simple as that! Rather than deal with this situation, a guy will often tell what he sees as a “little white lie” in order to avoid setting off unwanted emotions in the woman.

he is seeing the girl that he cheated with and tells me that he does not love her and still loves me >you seriously believe that one? If he didnt have any kind of feelings for her, then why is he still with her?

Tells me that they do not have a future together and losing me he feels like he has lost a piece of himself >If that were the case, why isnt he still with you, and not the girl he cheated on you with? You are being naive to believe EVERY excuse he is giving you. He doesnt want you back, hes not having a hard time forgiving himself for what hes done, he doesnt still “love” you, and he hasnt lost a piece of himself…because if those were all true, YOU would still be his girlfriend! Just think about that!

Top Three Reasons Men Lie In General:

1. For Sex

2. To Avoid Conflict

3. To Avoid Doing Something He Doesn’t Want To Do