How can I deal with my Mom's violent boyfriend?

i agree with lela! somehow get a phone and call 911 and get him out of there! as fast as u can. ur mom and u dont need a guy doing that. hes not worth it. good luck!

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talk to your mom. if she doesn’t listen, leave!!! stay with a friend until she gets her head screwed on right. she should never put you in a dangerous situation like that. if she truly loves you, herself, and him, then she needs to leave him and take care of what really matters… you.

Hey girl?? You really need to call a teen hotline # and tell them whats going on.. Try talking to your mom first but if she dont listen you need to take actions to get him away from your mom and brother.. Dont go tell anyone that ur mom knows about the situation that involves drugs.. Just tell them that ur moms boyfriend has a drinking problem and he needs to go to rehab

Next time he is drunk and breaking stuff go to someones house and call the police. . .If you think he has drugs in the house Tell the cops. Do what you can before he hurts someone really bad. . . .

talk to her. go talk to a counseler at school, go to a family member. If things are that bad you definatly need to talk to someone… I’m sorry I can’t help more but you really need to go to an adult that could help…

This is a dangerous person who needs some serious help. You and your mom need to cut this man loose before it’s too late. Next time he comes around and starts throwing things you walk out of there and call the cops. They’ll take care of him. I would recommend counseling afterwards. This way you’ll be able to rebuild your relationship with your mom. Good luck and stay safe!

I’ve read a book about a man and a women like that.. she ended up killing him, then herself… if you dont want that to happen you have to act. If it really scares you that bad. go to the police station and just TALK to a police. dont report it or anything… the police might even give you a KEY WORD.. which, alls you have to do is say this ONE WORD to them and they know something bad is happening. (you need a phone) or move out. and keep am eye on the situation from the outside.

As what all the above have said but you and you mum need to be away from this man. I was 2 in abusive relationship for 17 yrs and my kids were there and saw it all.. My biggest regrets are staying with those men instead of getting out. I still can’t forgive myself for putting my kids through it all. You need to talk to someone you can trust about this. We are all here for you if you need to talk.

The same exact thing happened to my best friend. Her mom was with this man Billy. He was into Coke,and one day,he actually died in her house form a Coke OD. You NEED to speak with your mother about your feelings,ASAP You need to tell her you dont feel safe with this man. Make sure she knows you respect him. but You need to tell him that You DONT like the habits he has brought with him.

If Your mother does not listen, find the closest Trusted adult,or even a councelor.

Trust Me,You Dont want to be in that situation anymore.

I hope everything works out, Ive been there with my best friend, it wasnt fun.

Hi there this has really caught my eye this email, I am a youth worker. How old are you? How is the situation at present? How are you feeling lately? Is your mum ok? please respond because depending what state you in etc I may be able to point you in the right direction. cheers

get your mom to get her boy frreind to call the cops