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OK, so I am dating this guy. We have been dating for about 5 months and I am sure I am completely in love with him. He is probably the best boyfriend any girl could ever have or want. He leaves me notes in my locker that says "I love you". He baked me cookies, he shows up at my house and surprises me with little gifts like my favorite food or pop. When I am out of town and get home, I find a note on my door that usually says, "I missed you like crazy. I'll call you later. Love you cupcake." He never gets mad at me and treats me like a princess. But he is s senior and I am a freshman. He will be going off to college in less than a year and he still wants to be with me when he does. But the college he is going to is 3 hours away. I am so afraid I am going to cheat on him. What can I do to keep myself still in love with him and not mess around with other guys when he goes to college?
Talk to him regually on the phone. Tell your self when your flirting with other guys "Should I really be doin this." And, It's always okay if you find someone else you have a better connection with , But, alwayss make sure you brake it off with the other guy, or there will be a mess of trouble comeing for you. And, Also If you do find someone you have a better connection with and you brake it off with the other guy, dont go back and forth brake it off one time, and that will be just fine, other wise that will make you seem like a hoe.
hope I helped. <3 xoxo
I hate to say this, but when someone enters college they are exposed to so many new people. It sounds like your boyfriend really loves you and I hope everything works out for you guys, but I only know of one highschool/college couple that made it through the first semester and she pretty much lived in his dorm. From what I've seen, usually the person in college is the one to cheat, but as for you, if he's really worth it, you won't cheat. If you do, maybe you don't love him as much as you think.
Well, I know how you feel, but he loves you and im sure he would be open to talking to you. you should definitely talk to him about the college and why your scared and everything. Next, if you love him you will do the right thing. If you are ever tempted to cheat, you should try to call him to help you remember that he is the one you want. I bet he will be spending every free mintue with you when he can! good luck!
If you really love him as you say you do you wouldnt even think about cheating. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years now we are now on our second year on college...he is in NY and im in NM so thats a really long distance relationship. BUT WE DO LOVE EACH OTHER AND WE HAVE PATIENCE. trust me it works out just fine.
awww thats really cute he really must love u and I dont think that it would be nice if you cheated on him if you really so call love him you wont even think of cheating on him or even get tempted to do it but if you do just break up with him before you do
YU 2 MAKE A COMMITMENT...AND REMIND YURSELF that YU WILL BE CONSIDERED A HORE FOR CHEATING ON HIM // WORKS FOR ME =)
