I need to know how to react.Please help me!

me and my girlfriend live apart from each other in different countries.Things have been going well until she got really busy with studies so she wants us to be just friends as she cares about me and feels guilty leting me down!she sms me daily and tells me she mises me from time to time but she cant have any formal relationship now as she just moved out from a relationship before gettin along wit me.what should I do.I cant think of her as a friend at all.I dont even know how to react when she sms me.shes comin to the summer for training in my country ,so even when I try to forget her I remember that I’ll have to see her again in the summer.what should I do..PLEASE advice me

Answer #1

DO what you just said in your question! … Tell her your feelings for her are genuine and hence you cant be just friends with her! … if you be friends with her you wont be able to move on …. So as harsh as it might sound the best thing is …. In a relationship or NO relationship not even FRIENDSHIP!

Answer #2

You need to tell her that what you two have is not friendship material necessarily (especially not now). In this case, look at what you have typed. She is only asking you this because she is considering your feelings and believes that she is letting you down. Talk to her and explain to her that she is not letting you down and that you truly care about her. Assure her that you are happy as things are and that you cannot think of her as just a friend. You need to be true to your partner and to yourself.

Open up to your partner and help her understand what your position is. Relationships go through challenges like these (eg. a busy partner) and phases like these can teach you a lot about each other and your relationship (as well as yourselves). Tell her that you are prepared to wait for her and that you understand that she has her own priorities and that you know the world can’t stop just for you. Explain to her that you know you’ll be seeing her soon and that there will be times when she’s free to talk. These are the times that will make the waiting worth it :). Have fun my friend!

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