I'm ashamed to admit this but I lied to my boyfriend about being a virgin I'm 21 so I'm definitley ready to have sex so I dont give me that lecture about waiting anyways it is not an option to tell him I am a virgin he despises liars & would break up with me instantly so could you tell me how to tell if my hymen has been broken I have tried fingering myself I could get 2 fingers in quite far but I dont know if that meant anything so could you please tell me how to break it or see if it broken I just dont want to bleed when we first have sex otherwise he will know I wus a virgin...oh & if anyone could tell me an excuse as to why I could be bleeding that would work too I really do not want to stick sumthing up there to break it.
Ok, there is a slight difference between being a liar and telling a lie. If you blurted out that you'd already had sex because you were embarrassed, you need to talk to him. How exactly do you hope to have a future with a guy you cant even come clean to (oh and why on earth would you want to give up your virginity to a guy who you couldnt be honest with?) Talk to him. This is a special experience, he should know it is your first time. And if you ever do get serious with this guy, can you imagine in several years down the road having to deal with this gigantic lie? Come clean... If he dumps you because of something this stupid, you deserve better...
You can't tell if your hymen has been broken. Different people (girls) have different sizes of hymen openings.
My ex boyfriend fingered me a lot and I'd bleed sometimes because he popped my cherry by fingering me. But when we had sex, I still bled. The guy will probably understand. It is possible for your period to be rushed that way, so you could tell him that he rushed your period.
when your hymen breaks you could feel like a small pop...like if you have a balloon inside that poped...so if you didnt feel that then your a virgin...anywaysz why would you lie about something like that?? oh and when you have a long time without having sex you could bleed so you could just tell him that =]
ure hymen is quite likely to be broken from fingering, tampons etc. if not it doesnt matter becos if you bleed during sex you can just say ure bigger thn im used to, even tho my hymen is broken I've still bled before
It's called a full stop (or a period as you yanks like to say). I really can't understand what you are trying to say
sayy you got your period.
