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I KNOW THIS IS LONG BUT I REALLY NEED SOME ADVICE PLEASE! THANKS!!!
ok well 2day I was in 1 of my classes and my friend danielle told my other friend rob (well kinda friend, he's pretty annoying) something. (she whispered it). then rob laughed and he asked me if I liked my other friend chris, I dont call him chris I call him by his nickname (which is part of his last name). I really do like him, but I thought no one knew. I said "what!?!" and he laughed. then danielle said "shh!!" to him. later at lunch (chris sits with his friends. but sits with us 4 like half of lunch), he came over and sat right next to me) (like always). rob and danielle start laughing. he asked "what?" they kept laughing. they thought I didnt know, but I knew. danielle whispered it to my other friends. I said "I know what you guys are talking about" . she said "what?" I didnt answer her. (like I was goona say that I liked him with him sitting right there) rob said "so how are you and your girlfriend doin?" he was so confused. im like "im leaving" I threw my garbage away. I came back and put my head down and I looked up 2 see danielle pointing at me and chris then making a heart.
a few minutes ago, I texted him askin if they told him what they were talking about. he said no. im like good, he's said ok. I said yea dont ask.
do you think he knows and do you think I should tell him? yeah he has a girlfriend. but he flirts w/me a lot. (everyday he takes my cell phone, so I'll walk w/him in the hall telling him 2 give it back, like 2day) before they found out that I like him, my friends always say "he so likes u" and "if he broke up w/his girlfriend, he would ask you out. I would bet on that"
I kinda want him 2 know (if he doesnt already), but I cant tell him, well I might be able to but... I dont know. do you think I should wait till my friends tell him, or till he gets the hint instead?
Ok well by the sounds of it, he probably does know. Don't fret though it's cool, keep your cool, patience etc. However if he has a girlfriend then it's probably best you stay clear from him for a bit, unless you're just friends, especially if he flirts with you. And he might like you..he's obviously very flirty with you, we all know that 'taking mobile' flirt. Like I said, he probably does know but if you want him to know then tell him. Be careful though, remember he does have a girlfriend, and think about how you would feel if you were his girlfriends.. =/ You might get people being mean..saying 'You're flirting with him too much' and 'He has a girlfriend, leavehim alone' kinda thing.
So.. the decision is up to you really, you could wait, see how things go. Chances are that he know you like him. If he really likes his girlfriend then he won't say/do anything about it. Good luck =]
dont let your friends tell him that you like him its a big turn off,,, and there is a good chance he doesnt know because he is a guy and we all know guys are dumb lol no offence to him just a fact. I wudnt make a move just yet the best things in life are worth waititng for. It doesnt seem like hes all that faithfull of a boyfriend in the first place to be flirting with you and he has a girlfriend thats messed up no matter what that just is,,,
lol, ya he allready knows, probably not through your friends either. Some women are easy to read when they like you, and you gave yourself away, should have just stayed calm. But never through a tantrum like you did, IM LEAVING and through your garbage away, huge mistake. but ya, he allready knows. But the good news is that he was still hangin out with you, he knows you like him, and he wouldn't be doin that if he didn't like you back
jst tell him.dont hold it in..so what your embarrassed use it to help you ask him.. trust me..if I told every single guy I liked that I liked them and wouldve gone out with them well lets jst say I wouldve been swimming in an ocean of exboyfriends
I don't think he knows knows (until you tell him) Most guys are oblivious to stuff like that. My boyfriends was!