How can I get him back when he's moved on?

I broke up with my boyfriend because I found out he was always going out with this other chick and they were always all over each other. After we broke up I found out it wasn’t true. Now I want him back. He’s what made me want to wake up every day. He the air I breathe. But he is dating the chick he was always going out with. She is making him hate me. I want him back. What do I do?

Answer #1

Aww…hon. I wish I could take away your pain - I really do. It’s human nature to want what we can’t have. Lord knows I’ve been down that road (more times than I care to count - and some VERY recent) - and I’m stronger for it. There are probably about a hundred things I could say in response to this - many observations and suggestions, but I don’t think it would help much, because it sounds like he already moved on. So what you need to do now, is take a deep breath, (maybe 100 of them); recognize what an amazing girl you are, and concentrate on how beautiful your future will be. Don’t think of this as a loss, but an opportunity - to learn and grow. I KNOW it hurts but please trust me that you will look back on this someday very soon, and see that you are better/stronger/wiser for it.

Meg ;-)

Answer #2

Greetings, This is your fault here, you shouldn’t have just one day listened to somone, and just broke up with him, without him knowing anything that’s happening, apologize to him. -phil2611

Answer #3

Listen to what you said, you broke up with him because you found out he was always going out with this other chick. Then you said it wasnt true. If that were the case….then why is he going out with her now? Hun> wake up and realize that hes been with the other chick the whole time! He obviously wasnt into you, so why would you want him back? You cant get someone back, if they dont want to!!! Hes moved on, you should too!!!

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