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I am 13 and I considered myself bi . I told my mom and she said I am stupid and not normal.I went out with this girl once and I broke up with her becuase she was falling for another girl. after she went out with her she broke up with her and went out with me agian. she had satrday school and I hadnt told my mom I was bi yet then she cam to my house and we mad out like 5 times and she told mii she loved mii then tuesday she told me its over and I have been deperssed ever since that … actualy ever since I started getting close to her I have been getting more deperssed. she toold me on a social site she still like me but she just wants to be single. I am still in love with her . I had my first kiss with her and now I am feeling deperssed at school and at home. I need some really really good advice! pleese help as much as posible

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Answer #1

Well for one, your mom needs to accept you for who you are because your her daughter. I’m 14 and I came out to my mom about me being bi also. My brother is gay and 24 so I already knew she would be accepting. I know this sounds cliche because every1 else has prbably told u, but she’s not worth it. My best friend (who I am secretly in love with)did the same thing to me but just as friends.And weve done sexual stuff together (when we were drunk). Like weve made out before and I went down on her (we were drunk and it wasnt the best idea even though we both didnt really care the next day). Anyway she eventually told me how much she missed me and needed me in her life, but for the month we weren’t friends, I really branched out and made new friends (even though it was really hard becuase 1 I love her and 2 shes in 3 of my classes) but I was really trying hard and I was starting to get over her. I think you both just need to take some time apart and think to yourself, even if she duz want you back, do you really want her back now. Think about it.

Answer #2

Sounds to me that she doesn’t care! because she wouldn’t do that to you! But mayb sumthings going on with her that mayb she doesn’t want a girlfriend at the moment…but she can’t b telling you that she loves you and all that mess and breaks your heart!

Don’t worry about her girl concentrate on what’s really important like school and your star player(yourself)

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