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My bff became a backstabber

Well my best friend In the whole world just stabbed me in the back!!! She made a bet with some chick that she could get a cute guy to go out with her and that she could be able to gout with him for 4 days and then break up with him. Well she did. But I got to know him. He was cute funny and really nice. So I asked katie if she had any feelings for him at all and she said know. She said he die the slowest death and she wouldnt care a bit. She realized I liked him and said I should see if he liked me. So I flirted with him and he flirted with me. He said “Im over katie. Plus I like someone else” I asked him who and he said me. I said I liked him to. So I tell katie about it and literally 5 minutes later. She asks him if he want to go back out with her. He really liked her. So he said yeah. He told me he was going back out with her. I said I was happy for him. He knew I wasnt.

I don’t know what to do! Im 13 and be would have been my 1st boy friend! She knew how much I liked him! I don’t know why she would do that! I thought she was better than that. But I guess I was wrong. I done know how I should handle my anger and sadness. I don’t ever want t see her again! And I haven’t been able to eat since then! Its been 3 days so far! Every time I swallow sumthing I throw up 5 minutes l8er! Please give a good way to handle my anger and sadness!

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Answer #1

Oh sorry, I forgot to advice you on how to handle your emotions. Well, I think it would be a great way to let off steam by ringing your best friend and telling her exactly how you feel, and what you think she did wrong. Maybe she’ll beg for forgiveness, maybe not. It’s your choice if you want her back as a friend, though I don’t think you should trust her anymore. She doesn’t seem too bothered about your feelings.

After you hang up the phone, let go, and try to forget it ever happened. Try to put it behind you. And about the guy? Well, totally forget about him, he’s just going to go and date as many chicks as he can by the looks of it. If it helps even more, write all your emotions and feelings into a piece of paper, and burn it (try to do it in a basin or somewhere safe). Burning it will symbolize the end of that pain for you. Most importantly, tell yourself (and really mean it) that you forgive them both even if you’re not going to be friends with them anymore. You will feel much better!

Answer #2

Well no good will come out of that, will it? You could even make a scene and look stupid in front of other students, worse, get caught and your parents might get called, and you could get suspended from school. Not a pretty picture. I say you should maintain your ‘good’ side and her the ‘bad’. If you need to tell someone how frustrated and betrayed you are, you could go talk to your parents or school counselor. I know letting go wont happen overnight, but you will eventually have to.

Answer #3

thnx that helped but to be honest I’m a little bit scared I mite get in to a fite with her at school or sumthing. I don’t want to but if I’m not careful my anger will get the better of me and katie and I both are kinda violent at times. I know this sounds dumb but I kinda want to fite her. I grew up with 3 brothers so I can get really violent. And I feel bad for wanting to fite her but I do…

Answer #4

Bad best friend. Forget about her.

Bad new boy friend. Forget about him.

You deserve better friends!!

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