What should I do about my parents?

So I brang boys (4 boys) into my house at 9 pm, after my parents saying no. My parents ended up finding out and now they are really mad at me at the fact that they arent even talking to me… what do I do? I really need help. at the moment I have noone bcze also my brother is mad at me and I don’t know what to do anymore. I am not alowed to touch the phone or computer to talk to my friends… and im not allowed out of the house for a year. I really dont know what to do? Can anyone please help me.

Answer #1

You’re 13? What exactly did you expect?

However, calm down. They’re really mad now, and that is upsetting. However, my guess is that you’re feeling really bad because you think it will never end, and this is going to be horrible forever. This is the point where you bring in rational thought. Yes, it sucks for now. All you can do is try and keep yourself busy, and wait for them to stop being mad. Which they will be in a few days (which can seem like an eternity I know, but you have to remember it is only a few days). As for the one year thing, they’re mad, not crazy. They’re not going to lock you up for a year. Try and keep things in perspective. You did something wrong, you could have been hurt. Your parents dont know what these kids are capable of, and they imagine all sorts of things that could have happened. So they will calm down, they will start to trust you again, you will talk to your friends again, and things will get back to normal. Just have a little patience, and realize this wont last long. Your parents are mad enough not to talk to you, which means they love you enough to be that mad. No one that loves you enough is going to be mad forever, or keep you locked up forever.

Answer #2

erm this happened to someone I know when she was 14 but she went out drinking she lost her money had to walk home and her mum and dad found out about it well they didnt speak to her and all she had to do was apologize and they spoke to her again x

Answer #3

there just trying to protect you and at your age you really shouldnt have brought 4 guys to your house the punnishment might be a little harsh but its fair you need to learn the lesson you never know what those boys could have done even if there friends and you should at least have had girls with you so its isnt 4 boys and just you incase something bad happend all you can do is deal with the punnsihment and learn from it

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