How can I get over him?

There’s a guy that I have a crush on. He has a girlfriend but this guy and I have some history. We talked a lot in 6th grade even though all he did was cheat off my tests but we still joked around. After that we didn’t talk at all but I felt myself developing a crush on him in the 8th grade. Now we are in the 9th grade, he has a girlfriend, and I have a major crush on him. Occasionally I may catch him looking at me but I always tell myself it’s nothing because I don’t want it to be more. Then again I feel like he doesn’t like me at all.

I need advice ASAP!! We are going back to school after the holiday break and I don’t want to be his girlfriend. I don’t want to feel so awkward and insecure around him anymore. I don’t want to consider him every time I go to the mall to shop and I certainly don’t want to feel that sudden shock in my heart when I get near him. I just want to get over him like any other cute boy I see wherever I go. So how do I do it?

Answer #1

well what I always do I think about da negative stuff about dem or what dey have done. Mayb that can work..

Answer #2

Seriously, forget about him. Hes using you. Guys do it to me all the time. Because your smart, he will use you again, act as a friend and leave you all alone. Get away from him FAST!!! It was done to me and I was so upset, I cried all the time, I would think about him all the time. Delete him from your contacts, your screen names, your e-mails, anything and everything!! I was seriously hurt, and I DONT want to see another girl have to go through the same thing I did. It hurts and it takes time if you let him use you…but if you stay away from him…it will be ok…and dont give in!!

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