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I really started to like a person I started to talk to for 3 weeks. I feel very happy when I talk to the person, brightens my day. We spend one day cuddeling and playing video games the whole day. it was the best day ever. Then they end up telling me they don’t like me that way. I thought I was feeling some connection but insted they said no… I tried to get over the person and be friends only. But I still can’t help but want to be with them. I don’t know what to do anymore, then I found out they also like someone else but that other person dosent like the person I like. Its like we are in a loop hole in away. I want whats best for them, if the person thinks he is better off with that person insted then I support them, but it makes me feel bad because I’m not putting up a fight. To show them I really care for them, insted they see it as me just having a silly crush or I dont know what I’m getting myself into. The person had told me before that I dont know him very well…and thats true I don’t know him well, but I can eventually and I have. it just frustrates me when they said “ Your just acting that way because I gave you attention”. It makes me feel like crap and worthless.

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Answer #1

awww… I know it sucks like sh*t… but in my oppinion I think it’s worth the fight (just don’t seem too obessesed or clingy - you don’t want to drive her away) but offer yourself to her when ever she needs you! - be there for her and show her you care, and prove to her that you want more than just a friendship - open up to her, share things with her and if she shares things with you - listen to her and help her with her needs! and maybe one day… you can express your feelings once again and ask her to give you a chance! but hey! don’t just wait on her! - you got to be open, cause you never know! - maybe there’s a girl that’s digging you! “when one door closes, another one opens - are you gunna turn your back against the open door and keep stairing at the closed one?”

hope this helped ya!

Answer #2

I have offered the person compassion and understanding, I told the person they can tell me anything I can lisen to their needs. The person had problems and told me no one takes time to lisen to them. I was kind of surprise because I told them I’m always their to lisen and help in any way I can. Or at least make them feel abit better even if I din’t help…That quote, it reminds me of my past experience I had along time ago.

Answer #3

that’s so sad. Maybe you can get to know them first as a friend and then they’d probably realize they like you too. Or you could also stop hanging with them so they realize they dont want to lose you. Though I recommend getting to know someone else. Someone who will take your feelings seriously and not treat you like crap. You deserve someone who can respect and cherish you back. Good luck sweetie. Hope I helped and srry if I didnt

Answer #4

Thank you Sweerserdreams I get what you mean, but its hard just to get over the person, especially when you hardly have anyone in your life to talk to or care for. I just wish they can see what I see in them.

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