I'm having problems with my girlfriend

We’ve been together for a month now, and our 2 month anniversary is coming up.

But the problems are:

First, I’ve been hearing that my girlfriend’s been calling her ex-boyfriend. But she’s denying it and I trust her, because everytime I ask her ex-boyfriend to see the calls from her, he makes up some excuse.

Second, I have seen my girlfriend flirting with other boys when I’m around.

I’ve tried to sure how much I really love her.

And, I’m not sure if I should stay in this relationship, or try to find someone else.

If you were in this situation what would you do?

I need help, with this!

Thank you very much!

Answer #1

There is nothing bad in that if ex-es have some chat on phone. A cheerful and flirty girl is more interesting than a shy or dull one.

Answer #2

shes denying it, and you trust her, because when you ask her exboyfriend to see the calls from her, he makes up some excuse > If he didnt have anything to hide, he would have gladly shown you. How do you have so much trust in someone you’ve only been with for a month? If your hearing things, and shes still flirting, I’d say she cant be that into you. From my experience, when people talk, its usually not rumors. My ex’s new girlfriend wouldnt believe anything anyone was telling her. She finally stopped closing her eyes to everything.

Answer #3

To tell you the truth I am in the SAME EXACT SITUATION we’ve been talkin for four months but only been together one month and our two month anniversary is coming up as well lol…but anyways all I have to say is just go with the flow dont rush things or dont come on to fast girls are difficult but if she is giving off cheating signs then dont let yourself get hurt your going to have to do whats hard and leave her if she is cheating nobody really needs that so just go with the flow the big thing to remember is dont spy on her cus thats even worse just kick back and see what happens =) hope that helps

Answer #4

Dont listen to what other people say. Thats how I lost the guy that I really liked because he listened to everyone else but woldnt even listen to me when he always said he trusted me. Dont keep asking or whatever though because then it will make her think that you are insecure or that you want to have her in “check”. And obviously the ex is lying because if he indeed did have the phone records or whatever then he would probs show them. But wait, if they arent trying to get together and yal love each other why are you so upset about this?

Sometimes flirting just comes naturally to girls. I know that I dont mean to do it sometimes when im with my boyfriend and other guys. I just cant help it. Its not that I mean to or anything but maybe its just how she acts with guys and I mean thats ok but maybe you should talk to her about it, but be nice to her about it. Just tell ehr that you notice she might be flirting with other guys and just see where that goes.

If you really love her then you wouldnt be thinkin about fidning someone else or not. Relationships will have their ups and downs and not everything will be picture perfect. And I mean hun its only been 2 months so I mean you are still gettin comfortable with ebeing together and its still kinda new.

Just hang in there and I hope my advice helped you.

Answer #5

Give it 1 more week, and if she is still acting like that, break up with her.

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